When asked about what she said about marriage and why she was not married during a 2016 interview with ToI IndiaTimes, Nimrat Kaur said. Her genuine opinion on marriage was a reality check to most cultural norms the society had placed most notably imposing pressure especially on women to get married and produce an heir. What Nimrat said not only explains the problems that many face in the area of relationships but also has wonderful thoughts with regard to marriage – it is not time for getting married, it is time for getting right, it depends upon understanding, patience, and chance, and not just a mere reputation.
Marriage is Personal, Not a Milestone Forced Upon You
Nimrat Kaur opinion on marriage perhaps should be a serve as a reminder that this life event is not for society, or for checklists, but for the people involved. She said that reflecting on the fact that she wasn’t a wife yet, marriage was not something she wanted to eliminate for herself completely but to wait for the right time for joining the marriage club. ‘How did you manage to get it into your head?’ Not wanting to do something is and I was very clear on that point has nothing to do with not willing to do this because… I am not married at the moment.
As far as she is concerned, marriage cannot be planned or pressured into happening either. This is about looking for a soul mate who embraces all that you stand for in life, your dreams, and your ambitions. This is a bond that will take a while to cultivate and know one another in the process. This attitude from Nimrat should erase any attitudes that associate marriage with a certain age as one that must be achieved or in some certain point in life is acceptable.
Challenging Societal Pressure
Marriage occupies a very special place in many cultures especially in Indian societies due to the implied societal and family norms. It becomes overwhelming they feel the burden of these traditions with questions and sometimes assumptions being thrown at them all, this because they have clocked a certain age. And for women, this type of pressure is especially added. Society itself tends to make the woman who has not been married and is not a mother, feel that she is lacking something lecherous in her life. Nimrat does not agree with such a theory as she argued today citing that it is wrong to conclude that a certain person is running away from marriage when they haven’t tied the knot as yet.
The demand for marriage is insistent and incessant and its insistence is not only heard pleasurably from family members and peers, but can be invasive from strangers. This commonly leads to people especially women feeling compelled to explain as to why they are single or not married. But Nimrat’s perspective is clear: marriage is not just something to be put down on a tick list so people can pretend to be married but should only be done if the right time has come and if the two people really have a bond.
Marriage I presume is all about the right time and divine intervention.
Perhaps one of the most liberating stances that Nimrat Kaur has taken in the show is the fact that she feels marriage is a question of destiny and timing. This she concludes that marriage is not something that can be which one has to compel them and do it because others tagged it as a deadline. It should happen gradually, that is, when the time comes you are going to meet your life partner. As she said “, that marriage is something, they are a matter of providence and they occur at their own instance, when you find the right partner.”
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This is embraceable due to latest society pressure where people especially women are subjected to certain life events at much earlier or later than the expected timeline. The focus placed on the need to marry, have children and abide by the life plan may smother the need and desire to develop relationships that count. Nimrat’s attitude helps people to learn how to shift their focus from the stressful attitude to the life process. It implies that marriage is not an achievement one makes but something that blossoms naturally when both individuals get ready for it.
The Modern Approach to Marriage: Patience and Compatibility
Nimrat Kaur’s opinion about marriage seems more evolved, seems more inconsiderate to the current way of thinking regarding marriages —patience, awareness, compatibility not the norms. The latest trends which are manifesting themselves currently include people preferring to remain single than enter into a relationship carelessly or get into a relationship because society expects them to. This story of Nimrat is loved by those who consider it more important to follow the feelings and adequate compatibility rates rather than stick to the early official schedule that many people in today’s society still expect.
The fact is that folks start to realize that it means finding true friend, true partner which can’t be achieved in a short time. This means that people should learn to come to terms with their own lives, the time they spend searching for a partner or making a conscious decision of not wanting to be a wife or a husband ever- and that is perfectly alright.
Living a Life That We Have to Take at Our Own Pace
Specifically, Nimrat Kaur’s position is particularly enabling in the light of Bollywood where celebrity existence is always open to a public autopsy. Male and female actors Beautiful are usually pressured to conform to the culture and their private lives become the subject of criticism. While Nimrat’s view of marriage is rather optimistic, it gives the global society something different to worry about which is rather rare for celebrities.
And her decision to drop the idea of following the laid down time and societal pressure to get a partner influences other people in the same way by making them understand that it is okay to wait for the right partner, while at the same time improving her self-esteem. She frees the married women out there and every woman out there with the reminder that marriage cannot be forced. It is truly a very individual thing and it should happen naturally, when the time is right, with the right person and the right chemistry.
Conclusion: Special Insight: A Call to Trust Your Own Journey
We need more voices like Nimrat Kaur to lead women in particular, and everyone in general to break the shackles within which our society binds them to marriage. All these, she is telling us to have faith in this process of finding love and do not be pressured by what society has to say. As she said it best, “I don’t think these things can be orchestrated” and thus she echoes the reality that love can cannot be forced, and is best when it happens on its own terms.
Her outlook to life and particularly in relationships provides an encouraging stance in terms of choice rather than chance, and authenticity as compared with quantification. In a world where many feel the pressure to settle down, Nimrat’s message is simple yet profound: There will always be someone waiting for you, the timing of life is not determined by anyone, and do not let anyone control your life decisions.
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